So you want to Play with ME

Your Delight Lives at the End of My Whip.

I call this ‘Your Delight Lives at the End of My Whip’. This is a mutual favorite of mine and the photographer. Love how she shows me off.

Before I go any further, do not think you will go from play partner to in service without going through my Rites of Passage.

It is fairly easy to be a play partner of mine, at least I think so.

  1. I only play with play partners in public. Private play is solely for those in service and/or close to me.
  2. You must have your own toys. It is healthier for you.
  3. Approach me humbly, but introduce yourself clearly. It is a plus, if you have another Dominant that knows you and me that could help you introduce yourself.
  4. If you know ahead of time you want to play with me than show me. Present me with a note or card to go with your introduction of yourself. Yes, I will accept a small gift. I love teddy bears.
  5. If you want me to come to a party to play with you, then I expect you to treat this like asking any woman on a date. Now, if you don’t know how to do that…get a mentor.
  6. Be ready to have a serious conversation before we play, with me and whomever is in my company.
  7. After the conversation, I will take sometime to think before playing with you. To ponder your behavior and what has been discussed. This is for your safety as well as my own.
  8. If I decide we will play, be ready to have water for both us. We will need it, esp. you, after we are done.
  9. I will not provide sexual or sensual aftercare, but will provide aftercare.
  10. I will not do any sort of sexual penetration play.
  11. I will not do any sort of play the calls for me to reveal my flesh with the exception of my feet.
  12. Men, you must have on a thong OR g-string at the least. You are not to have your penis bare in my presence. I may accept you in your chastity device.

Asking to play with me at a party is not much different from asking a woman to dance at a party.



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