I have recovered, so here is the recap

Unless you have not been by here at all, you know I recently took part in a mini tour with My Sister Dom, Mistress Meltz aka Meltznyomouf. This all took place last week and was a huge eye opener.

The very best thing about the trip was spending time with my Sister. We had not physical seen each other since 2009, I believe. She looks really good. It did my heart good to be around her.

With most articles I start here I start my accounts from the beginning, although I am itching to get to the drama…suspense is sexy.

Aside from seeing my sister, the tour was my attempt to explore some things to see where my heart was with them. Well, I found out. Like many, in the small side of the fetish industry, I started with porn. I did a movie as Queen Nefertiti and realized it really was not for me. To make any money at it, there was a level of involvement and activity I was truly not interested in. Not to mention, I was already in a jaded place about men and sex. During that movie, I had the opportunity to let my Dom out to play. I much more enjoyed that.

So I continued to dabble in session as well as some fetish/kink clips here and there. Yet, I only ever dabbled.

My sister, Meltz, and I discussed this being our do or die moment with Professional BDSM. During this tour/shoot, I tried out some new fetish subjects to see how they go for me.

Now the tour was supposed to start March 21st for me, but I had some family issues and I needed to stay close to home. So instead, going to Baltimore, I met Mistress Meltz in New York.

Of course many subs/slaves said they wanted to appear in shoots with us. What is  called Session for Content Trade, which on the surface sounds like a good idea. I was slow to get on board, but I did so to support my sister. I really wanted this trip to yield some fruit for her as she wanted the same for me. In the beginning, there was one ‘human floor mat’ that volunteered to be in the shoots. He was also under consideration to be under my sister. As we got closer to do or die time, he became more and more flaky. Color me, not surprised. Like so many stypes, his talk was bigger than his reality. This individual drove eight hours to Baltimore, just to turn back around to leave.

He boast himself to be able to take the weight of many across his body. And had been campaigning to take a trampling from four to five of us. This list was to include:

Now Mistress Meltz and I together weigh 665. Even though he talked about about his ability, he did have video to back it up. Not video of that many, it would have been a new feat for him. Well aside from some very lazy stype behavior, when it came time to start. Meltz and Kabani weren’t on him five minutes, before he tapped out and shortly after left.

Because he had already started being flaky, we continued to welcome the petition of other stypes to take advantage of the Session for Content Trade. By the way, a session for content trade is simply a stype that either can not afford a session or to cheap for a session performs the service of having his session recorded to be sold on a site. Generally that maybe all they have to do or it could be as much as PA to the Dom during the shoot as well.

Many showed interest in talking our ears off, but few actually completed the vetting process with the exception of one. And this simple simon motherfucker was a full-blown drama queen. He was slated to be the second stype to be used during the New York leg of my sister’s tour.

He begged and pestered about doing more than the agreement place before him. He wanted to come down to Baltimore and pickup Meltz, Kabani and Kabani’s crew not to mention their bags. I had already gotten my ticket from Philadelphia to New York, plus I was concerned about comfort. When I asked him about his vehicle, he seemed to unsure about which he would have. It turned out Kabani could not make it to New York and Meltz agreed to meet this stype that I named tigger in Philly and he was to bring her to New York. Turns out my bus was late and when I found out Meltz would be alone with him in the car, I decided to wait and ride up with them. We are approaching strike one.

Now, I asked him about the size of his car. He told me it was strong enough to carry everyone. I told him that was not my concern, my concern was everyone fitting comfortably. He was not sure then, I gathered it had to do with gas and mileage because he mentioned three cars. One of which, I just knew he was not going to consider showing up in. Not to pick up a bunch of big women. So there was some miscommunication about what bus my sister was coming in on, in hindsight, I think he did on purpose. See he was not really interested in me, because I was too small in his eyes. No offense taken at all by me, either. Yet, he knew better than to isolate me because my sister would have brushed him off. Lmao. So he picks he up and then comes to pick me up. Let me tell you again:

  • Meltz and I together are 665, when we estimated 650 bls;
  • We are 5’10″ and 5’8″.

Why did this child, show up in his late-model two door civic? Now suddenly his ford explorer was down. Can you image what we looked like in this car? My first thought was to go back and wait for my bus, but I could not leave my Sister alone with him.

The whole ride this chile ran his mouth more than watching the road. At one point, we were at a light and this asshole rolls his window down as he is driving by a pan-handler then yells out the window get a job. Meltz and I laid him out. First of all, here you are two days from being smoked out of your place because you chose not to pay rent for four to five months. I told you this chile ran his mouth like a broken faucet.

Now of the two of us, I am the calm on the outside and nuclear bomb on the inside person. Way to often, stypes allow my calm demeanor fool them. Tigger did as well.

So the agreement was he was to chauffeur, take us to dinner on him and allow his session to be recorded. A session with me alone is 200 an hour. He got a session with two of us and two days.

Before we decided on a restaurant, I went over with him which restaurant we wanted and the cost. He continuously said he had it. I chose an Asian Buffet in Manhattan. The Lunch time cost was 20 dollars and the Dinner time cost was about 34 dollars. I wanted us to make it for the Lunch but traffic and his not paying attention to his gps we ended up going to Dinner. We get to the restaurant, food on our plates then he walks up to me. He says, ‘Ms. Kirashan I may have a problem.’ He differed to me because he figured I was the nice one. I told him what ever the problem is that he needed to discuss it with Mistress Meltz.  I went to sit down and wait to hear the outcome.

The problem was he just realized he only had 57 dollars. Now that would not have covered lunch let alone dinner. I went over with him in detail about the cost and what to be ready for. He repeatedly said he had it. Even doubted I had found a place at that price in Manhattan, until I showed him the site. Fine you money is not a long as you thought it was, why not say that before. I could have suggested another choice.

So the agreement, was he would not eat and we would cover the rest. Meltz and I continued to enjoy our meal. Most of you know I am a sushi head, so my focus was on that end of the buffet. At one point, he takes a slice of bread and begins to nibble. Our waitress, of whom was very lacking, told the hostess. The hostess came over to ask if everything was ok with the food, because he did not have a plate. He told her he was not eating. He brought his two friends from out-of-town to treat them to dinner. Them would be Mistress Meltz and I. She said okay, she just wanted to make sure everything was okay. She then left.

As the dinner continued, tigger left the table many times to go to the bathroom and check on his car. He said he was extra worried about it, because he had just gotten is back from being stolen. What we could not see if every time he passed the buffet, he took a little something from it. We did not see it, but our waitress did and informed the hostess. So when the bill came, instead of for two people it was for three people. Meltz sent him to the front to handle it. We figured the women forget and charged according to the reservation. As we sat there, Meltz and I realized it was taking him too long to come back. We got our coats and his to go investigate.

As we are walking to the front the waitress jumps out in front of us asking where is the check. I am not going to lie, my first thought was not a pretty one. But I noticed tigger at the front looking dramatic. I told her, he has it. She then scurried off to the front before us. We knew that we were walking into some shit then. We get to the front and sit down to listen to what was going on. They told him they saw him taking food from the buffet and he had to pay. He acted as if he was refusing to pay at all. Meltz jumped up and said to him give them the money to cover ours. I was frozen with embarrassment for a moment. Meltz was on the verge, when tigger had the nerve to talk about she was going to respect him. He is telling these people they are being petty over a few pieces of food. I swear I felt chunks rising. I got it together and jumped up.

I asked if we could take the discussion away from the front door where customers were coming in. No one, including the staff realized the attention this was drawing. The manager, host and I spoke. I guess I must have looked bad, because they kept asking me to sit and that they understood that we knew nothing about what was going on. I apologized for the disturbance and made myself clear that dine and dash we don’t do. The manager went to get on the phone and they accepted to take the seventy. I also made it clear to tigger that he needs to thank them because they did not have to agree to this. I was emotionally done.

We left, he took us to our host. Meltz still gave him a brief scene. After all that drama, he still got a session. I was so happy when he was gone, I could not see straight. I figured that was that. We needed to get some sleep because the next morning, we were going to start shooting with our host and each other. We tried some new things and I got some new fetish footage for my store as well. The agreement for staying with our host was shooting two videos for her site for each night we stayed.

While I was shooting my part with the host, tigger was rapid fire texting Meltz. He wanted to make up for the day before. Meltz told him he better not come empty-handed. He first offered to bring oreos, lol. So they came to an agreement. Meltz wanted more trampling and butt drop footage. He was of no use for what I wanted for my site. So he comes Wednesday. Now, I was ready to send his ass home as soon as he got there. I meet him in the hall way and told him he had to wait downstairs because there was a session going on. This chile says does she have my four dollars. I bit my tongue and told whatever agreement he has he needs to take it up with Meltz and I suggest he checks his tone when he does it.

Session is over and he comes up. We start shootings. He said he knew he was going to have to take punishment for his behavior. Meltz has him sign an agreement anyway. Shoot went fine. After the shoot all hell broke loose. It was time for the next group to have their shoot and session time. I told tigger he had to be quiet during their shoot. Plus he needed to relax after ours. He starts asking about the food that he bought. Wanting to jump up and run around. I told him firmly, ‘Sit your ass down. You are being very disrespectful. They patiently waiting and quietly. We will all eat, etc after they are done.’ He stormed out of the place. I was not running after him. He starts his rapid fire texting of Meltz and beginnings threaten to go on the forum about his 4 dollars and say we put him out etc. Meltz blocked him. Awhile later, he comes back and leans on the bell and makes a scene in the lobby. I jumped up and went downstairs to see him. They told him I was on my way down and he left.

I came back upstairs and called him. He said he was not waiting around to get beat up. I told him if he was afraid of getting beat up, why cause a situation that you feel will get you beat up. I told him to continue on home and calm down. We would discuss this later. Instead, he put his drama queen hat on and took to Meltz thread. Attacking her directly and me indirectly. Now my sister does not take to being lied on well at all. She went nuclear. They shared a few exchanges and I am decided to play this is over. I don’t like to see my sister nuclear. While I was calm, I made it clear what the truth was.

I had to get out of the house at that point. So Meltz suggested we go to the diner around the corner. I had a glass of wine and a good meal with great service. I felt better.

The next day we finished up shooting and left.

I learned my lesson. Stypes think I am unyielding with my protocols now, well wait until I finish with these new updates.

I used to be wary of content trade but it is not bad at all really. It just apart of networking. I have streamlined how I want to engage in that a well.

As I said earlier, I was most happy to see my sister. We kept each other sane and safe. I have some clear ideas on what direction I want to take my clips4sale store. I am still on the fence about investing in site for my content. I will see how this upcoming summer fairs.



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