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June 21st

Serving me is easy. Remember this is not Burger King, you can not have my Dominance your way…

This Grabbed Me

“We are not born all at once, but by bits. The body first, and the spirit later; and the birth and growth of the spirit, in those who are attentive to their own inner life, are slow and exceedingly painful. Our mothers are racked with the pains of our physical birth; we ourselves suffer the longer pains of our spiritual growth.”

–Mary Antin

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Quote of the Moment

“In every crisis there is a message. Crises are nature’s way of forcing change–breaking down old structures, shaking loose negative habits so that something new and better can take their place.”
- Susan L. Taylor

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Quotes of the Day

“You can live to be a hundred if you give up all the things that make you want to live to be a hundred.”
― Woody Allen

“I’m offering you my pain. My blood. My pleasure. I’m offering you the right to whip and fuck. To debase and harm. I’m offering to fight your needs with my own. I’m willing to join you in the darkness and find pleasure in excruciating pain. I’m willing to be your monster, Q.”
― Pepper Winters, Tears of Tess

Queer and black allow me to bring the personal and the political together without having one circumscribe the other, to invoke a critical position towards prescriptive theories of oppression and activism, and to open up the possibility of productive insights into the emerging feminism of this decade and their inherent power relations.
~ Laura Alexander Harris

“Security comes first from inside of you. Then, if you are very lucky, you will be in a position to find other people who also possess that same sort of security, and build some sort of family or community as a team.”
― Anthony D. Ravenscroft, Polyamory: Roadmaps for the Clueless and Hopeful: An Introduction on Polyamory

 

Quote of the day

As there is often more than one hen in the henhouse, there is more than one wolf around.

Thursday, October 10, 2013

What is Normal? It is a temperature setting on your washer/dryer. People are not ‘Normal’. We are varied. We are free as our mind’s allows us to be.

~ From a late night/early morning support a friend moment with Diabolique Belle

Beautiful Imperfection = Human Beings

~ unknown, I feel like I read this exact quote somewhere.

Sunday, October 6, 2013

Submission is not about being used,
Submission is about being of use,
Submission is not thinking less of yourself,
Submission is thinking of yourself less,
Submission is not about what is done to you,
Submission is what you can do for her

~ KittyBites

Young Bull, Old Bull

An old bull and a young bull stand on a hillside, overlooking a pasture. The young bull says to the old bull, “Hey, let’s run down and fuck one of those heifers.” The old bull replies, “let’s walk down and fuck ‘em all.”

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Why not go out on a limb? That’s where the fruit is. -Mark Twain

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Dominant Burnout

The main thing in life is not to be afraid of being human.
Aaron Carter

I am a human being before anything else. Before all the list of titles and personality traits, they doctor said it’s a girl. This means I wear no shame in needing time to myself. Show me a person that says they can not take 24 hours to themselves, for themselves and about themselves and I will so you a person on the brink of self-destruction.

I, like many Dominants, have experienced burnout. Actually, to no fault of the s-type. Being a Dominant, if you take it seriously, is a big responsibility. Not just physically, but mentally and spiritually. Too often, we forget to take time for ourselves.

For example, just yesterday I had to shut it down. I was getting wrapped up in too much outside energy. So I shut the door and left the outside…OUTSIDE.

I started by writing a few list. A list of what I wish I could do now; what I need to do now; what I want to do now; what others want or need me to now. Then I ripped them all up. (Normally, I burn it.) Then I took a long shower. Meditated and released it all. I don’t remember anything on any of the list and not even going to try to. The point was to remove the weight.

I don’t smoke weed, so this is my way of getting a-lil of Katt Williams’ ‘Fuck It’ in my system. Lmfao.

In the end, whatever or whoever makes their presence known will earn their rightful place of priority when it comes to outside energy coming into My Life. Like the game ‘Musical Chairs’ some chairs have been taken away this go round.

By the way, I have been sick from burnout before…not sexy. It was work related, but o so not sexy. I dropped that job like there was an outbreak of mad cow disease. Yes, I was broke for awhile…but I was happy. My health improved and even started a whole new career. Even though, financially I am I still recovering…I am happy.

I learned I don’t have to be afraid to let go. If I don’t, my life may let go of me.

WAY NOT SEXY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!