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National Orgasm Day

Personally, I have celebrated my orgasm twice a day since I started masturbating as a girl. I am so in tuned with my body, I don’t even need to touch myself. No imagining I am with anyone either. My masturbation and its orgasm are all about ME! With no fucking apology.

Did You Miss Me?

I have been busy lately. A lot of changes have been going on.

Lately, I have been having conversations with the ONE man I am involved with about a lot of things including being poly. He is not my boyfriend, we have a primal relationship. There are obstacles that have kept us from actually exploring dating each other, distance being one.

He is not poly, at most he would be a kinkster. He wants to keep our options open but the reality is at this point there are potential limits. I could not agree to marry him because I know I don’t want to have to choose between the man and woman I love. Really the breaking point for him is me having a parallel relationship with someone else that he can not be sexually involved in.

I tried to explain this is not about having some side piece.  I even addressed my lover as my wife, to help him understand this would be a serious relationship. Not just someone to spice up bed activity.

I don’t normally have such a serious conversation so soon, but he has been very stern in his desire of me. I needed him to understand what all that includes, I am not into wasting anyone’s time.

We have a chemistry, even though I think he is crazy sometimes, LOL.

At the moment, he is the only man who I have a total sexual drive for. It could because of the distance but I am game to see where it goes.

I still want a girlfriend. Lol.

Published in: Me and Poly on July 21, 2015 at11:36 AM Comments Off
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Did You Miss Me?

Well I missed you all, lol.

I have started writing a non-lifestyle related work, so I have focused on that. Now that I am clear on my characters as people I can continue blogging. I have not mentioned it to many that I am writing because I don’t want any creative interference. People don’t mean to be a distraction they just want to feel creative.

I am not sure if I am going to do any creative writing that is reflective of the Lifestyle. I don’t think my type of edge can be handled by the public.

Some of you visit to see where I am in starting a new dynamic. Well there has been a major change. I have lost my desire for men sexually. It happens, once I went four years without being with a man or even thinking about one. I will always and still love my gay porn, just not interested in being intimate with a man.

I have been in denial about it building for sometime. Yet the last few times I had sex, I had to imagine being with a woman to get off. It was not my partner, it was me. Just where my head is.

Will I want to be with a man again? Don’t know.

Now how does that affect a Lifestyle dynamic? It doesn’t to in my opinion. My orgasm is not apart of my dynamics. Just means if a man wants to be in a dynamic with me, he needs to understand he will not be having sex with me. So all of you ‘I am the best oral servant ever’ s-types need not apply here.

How this will affect my blog, you will read more about me and women is all. MAYBE! I know I will still have articles reading someone the riot act.

My friends find it funny that I still get off on Gay porn but I don’t want to have sex with a man. It is my fetish is all I can say. Even funnier to them, I am not a fan of Lesbian porn. It does nothing for me.

I have closed most the profiles I had on other social sites, except for Fet and those that I use to promote my pay sites.

I am going to try to visit more often. I am sure with the acceptance if this transition, I will have plenty to share.

Did I Share? I Forgot, Forgive Me?

I have not been socializing enough in the Lifestyle for some time, just other Life situations.

It does not mean I have forgotten anyone. I know some people feel you have to ‘touch’ them everyday or you don’t care about them. That is not the case at all. I think about most people I know at least once a week.

Anyway, let’s start with the most obvious. I am Domina Kirashan, because I am officially back on the market. Also, I was tired of these Doms that don’t read sending me notes that made me embarrassed for them. Ladies, sub or not, you are allowed to have standards and protocols. Know your worth. Gentleman, every bent over ass bare or in a thong is not a woman. Read, before you comment…UGH!

Anyway, I have shaken off some baggage and am ready to consider seriously ready FEMALES for a real dynamic/relationship. Some important things to know:

Brats

So not my thing. Too much like topping from the bottom and for whatever reason interrupts my sexual attraction to a woman or man. When I feel I am being topped from the bottom, I stand still. I will not move forward, after while I will fall off.

Darn, I guess that is the most important thing to know, LMAO.

Opps, just remembered:

Bi-Sexual or Free Gender Daters

Number one, I am not looking to be an accessory in a threesome.
If we can not have our parallel relationship alongside your M/F relationship, we will end up being friends only. When I say parallel, I don’t mean when he has pissed you off…you want to spend time with me.
I have had enough being drawn into some pissing contest with a Man over a Woman we are both interested in. Just because someone can not respect boundaries. Well, I have never accepted any challenges to the pissing contest…I am not a fan of the challenge alone.
I am not a man-hater, but if your desire for man is not equal to your desire for a woman, it will not work out. It will leave you in a decision-making position. I will not tolerate that. It is not that deep for me, I have no problem volunteering to just be friends. I LOATHE BAD SOAP-OPERA DRAMA.
I have never had a problem allowing a man his delusion that he won something. Lawd knows I am on that list of women that have let a man think he knock it out of this light year to not hurt his feelings.
I am not sure what it is I am doing, but I tend to set off some sort of alarm in men…they start trying to prove that they are a man or the man. It might be I tend to destroy their threesome fantasy. I don’t want you, I want her.

Being Poly

I am poly, so having other relationships never bothers me. If we decide to be in a dynamic, then I can be the only D/s you are in. I am not going to apologize for that statement either.

My Playpartners and other relationships

While none are of a sexual nature, I am just as passionate about them. Yes, you will meet them. That normally takes place around the third or fourth date. That is if you don’t already know them. Just as I expect to meet those important to you. I don’t look for you to become besties with them but I will look to see how things fit.

Gentlemen, not mad at you all in the least.

Let the Courtship Being


So what, I like Coming to America. As a matter of fact, I am going to get a bowl of cereal (well grits and eggs) and watch it while I eat, LMAO.

One other thing, how I engage with women is very different from when I engage with men. It is best to contact me and ask a question before forming an opinion.

Yesterday was My Birthday

Thank you to all those who have shown the respect and service to say Happy Birthday to me yesterday. Of course, I am still accepting belated birthday wishes and of course gifts.

 

I took some time yesterday to do some thinking about my presence in the Lifestyle. For example, I am thinking of only accepting couples. I have some more thinking about it but it feels right. I see way to many whether telling the truth or lying saying their significant other does not understand. So I am sure some if they had a hand to hold and guidance that could be one less cheater roaming the internet.

 

I have also finished adding the new additions to my C4SLive membership site. There are things there only my members get to see. I will be adding a variety of updates every month.

 

Since I have reactivated my member’s site, I have cleaned up my clips4sale store. Only posting my most popular and newest clips there.

 

I also have a little something new going on in my Niteflirt goody bag. To keep up with you will need to follow my twitter or tumblr, those are the only places these updates will posted.

Accepting Happy Birthday Calls in My @NiteFlirt Sanctuary 1-800-To-Flirt, ext: 9791813. #phonesex #phoneflirt #prodom #findom @flirtblogs

Published in: Domina Kirashan on April 29, 2015 at8:59 AM Comments Off

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Birthday Wishlist Alert – Philly Cheesesteak

I swear I am such an easy woman to please. I only eat Maxx’s Cheese steaks once a year. I can’t afford the eat them more often than that, my body will kick my ass. So who is going to take me on my Maxx’s birthday date?

Birthday Wishlist Alert – Room

A room for my birthday. I just want a room. It can be in New York or Philly.

I am in Love

Published in: Domina Kirashan on at9:44 PM Comments Off